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Quitting Smoking

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Started by g (Does everything start with destruction?)

Just interested to know if any wombles have (successfully) ever given up smoking? I ask this as i’m ony my third day of cold turkey (i dont believe in the idea of using patches as it seems counteractive to give up something by changing method of administration, that would be like the nhs moving heroin junkies from using needles to smoking it), im finding it alot easier than the last time i attempted due to reading some articles on big tobacco and some of the shit they’ve pulled, when im facing cravings i just think to myself that i’m not going to give in and become a slave to these evil people who are profiting over my addiction (and problem, because it is a problem and should be recognised as one rather than a “choice”) anymore, also i’ve been experiencing a sharp pain in my heart, alot of coughing and a general discomfort but im getting through this by telling myself its my body recovering and that even a few weeks of this is ultimatley miles better than the prospect of a slow painful death. The one thing im struggling with are so called “triggers” like the moments in life where i’d smoke out of habit and not necessity eg whenever leaving the house and walking somewhere, or after putting the washing machine on etc. i know theres a low success rate, but i really do feel as though this time i will beat it because my mind is so set on it. Hell looking back now the only reason i started smoking was a (very very ill informed and misguided) teenage rebellion against god know what.

Posted on Wed, 3 November 2010 at 09:50

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dubbass (Just another company man) wrote:

Hello, dude, i will give you my story.
After i tried several times to quit smoking, i woke up one day and i said to myself. “That’s it. Im quitting”. So i believe that the basic thing is the power of your will. If you stick up to this idea and try to maintain your integrity, this is the first step.
I didn’t also use any patches or some stupid electric cigarettes, or any other misleading supplements. One friend of mine then, told me that i should try the following: I would take a cigarette, i would sink it in a bottle of whisky, i would let it dry to the sun for days, and after that i would try to smoke it. And i did it! And the result was that i puked like hell for half a day. And after that, i couldn’t stand either the smoke! That was a genious method. It may sound ridiculous or stupid, but it worked for me!
Those symptoms that you got, are very usual after you quit smoking. They may continue to appear for more than a month. You should get excersised as much as you can, or even having sex instead. I didnt exercise a lot but im having a lot aof sex actually with my girlfriend (poor girl!) and this way helped me a lot with my breathing system. I would actually trying to hold and catch my breath afterwards, so there was some kind of restoration with my breath system.
Regarding the “triggers (inside!)”, here in Athens, we are having a lot of rosaries if you know what im talking about. Just a quick search at the google pics and you will know what im talking about. So i used a lot of rosaries, i even got them with me to everywhere i went, so i was having something in my hands and fingers instead of cigies. That helped me a lot.
That’s all for now. If you need anything else, you are welcomed to ask for it.
Cheers

Posted on Wed, 3 November 2010 at 10:19

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crazy horse (crazy horse) wrote:

im a committed smorker (around 20 a day) and last year i had to spend two weeks in hospital (although it had nothing to do with smokin) ,so obviously i could not smoke ,the hospital automatically put me on patches ,and for the entire fortnifgt i didnt feel one single urge to smoke.I know you gave your reasons why you dont want to use patches ,but in my opinion you may eventually have to let your principals take a back seat for a while if you want to acheive sucsess ,look at patches merely as a stepping stone ,.The reason there is such a low sucsess rate for quitting is becase it is such a difficult thing to do ,however you choose to do it ,i wish you well

Posted on Wed, 3 November 2010 at 10:28

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Joel (Joel Wreford) wrote:

I smoked for about 12 years, then gave up cold turkey. Managed 2 years. Then for no reason started again. Now I’m still an on off smoker. My advice is that once you’ve stopped (btw if you manage 3 weeks you’ve got over the hump apparently) don’t ever be tempted to have ‘just the one’ because before you know it you’ll be 20 a day again. Also try Allen Carrs (not the comedian) book, it’s very good.

Posted on Wed, 3 November 2010 at 10:32

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Thefanthattriedtostrangleitslf wrote:

Here’s Nick Holmes’ advice I read the other day: ‘Quit. It’s only good for dying.’

Posted on Wed, 3 November 2010 at 10:39

#5

Cuchulain wrote:

Try lollipops.

Posted on Wed, 3 November 2010 at 11:42

#6

Gav wrote:

I packed it in about 9 years ago.

I used to be more of a social smoker, I’d buy a pack on my way out on a friday/saturday night, but after changing job I ended up smoking about 20 a day.
I was a bit skint at the time, was playing in a band and really wanted an effects unit for my bass, It was costing me about £30 a week to smoke and I figured if I gave up and used the fag money, I could have it in 3 or 4 weeks so I just stopped.

I wasn’t really bothered about quitting smoking at the time, I was happy enough carrying on, its just I wanted the bass pedal more and I think that helped a lot.

It helped having that trade off. Find something nice to treat yourself with and stick a fiver in a jar everyday towards it…

Posted on Wed, 3 November 2010 at 12:16

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Dermot wrote:

Here’s my epic story of me and smoking.

I started when I’d just turned 15 (I’m 28 now). Started off on 2 or 3 a day, then by the time I went to uni I was on at least 10 a day, sometimes 20+ if I was drinking.

When I was 24 I met a girl (who would go on to become my wife) who was very anti-smoking, and I made my first real attempt at trying to stop. I did it by reading Alan Carr’s book (as Joel mentioned) and I thought it was excellent. I then went off them for 6 months or so (only having the odd one when I was drinking) but then I switched jobs and started again to “fit in” as everyone at my new workplace smoked (pathetic, I know). When I realised I was hooked again I tried re-reading Alan Carr’s book, but it was almost as though the “magic” or “trick” was gone, and it just didn’t work. So I was back on the cigs for another 3 years (although I was only smoking at work, not at evenings and weekends).

Then I found out last Christmas that I was going to be a Dad (major incentive to stop). I knew I’d have to give up at some stage before the baby came along. The way I did it was one day in early July a colleague of mine (who loves her smokes) was sitting chewing nicotine gum saying she was going to give quitting a go. I decided on the spur of the moment to give up then myself. I used nicotine gum (not any set amount, I just chewed some if I felt a strong urge). I would also definitely recommend exercise (I go running) as afterwards you don’t really want to smoke, even the next day. Anyway, the baby came along at the end of August and I’m still off them these four months (if I’m being perfectly honest, I actually had a couple at the Therapy? gig tho lol). Really hope I can stay off them this time… I don’t have any cravings and people smoking around me doesn’t annoy me but I know from bitter experience just how easy it is to fall back into it!!

Posted on Wed, 3 November 2010 at 16:35

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Citizen Erased (confused again) wrote:

Someone I know recently turned 30 and said she was tempted to start :-s, I didn’t realise anyone started once they’d got out of their teens, especialyl not for the reason of ‘it looks cool’…

Congrats to all of those of you that have given up though :-)

Posted on Wed, 3 November 2010 at 17:40

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g (Does everything start with destruction?) wrote:

im going to put my giving up to test tonight by going out, usually when im out i tend to smoke alot, however i am not getting intoxicated in anyway tonight to see if i can be surronded by people smoking when i go to the smoking terrace to hang out and not be tempted myself. im having a month off drinking and whatnot as well to a) get life on track and b) i know that the moment alcohol touches my tounge i start chain smoking to the degree where i’ll be making my next rollie as im halfway through smoking the one before it, or that when im at a houseparty all morning i tend to hit a period where i start chain smoking as im starting to recover from my nights antics.

Posted on Wed, 3 November 2010 at 19:06

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kossu (Petri Koskiniemi) wrote:

thumbs up to you all who have quit smokin and good luck to them who will try: I´ve smoked for nearly 28 years of my life, have tried to stop numerious/several times but here I am again..Must say that I was almost two years smokin but I collapsed again when I had hard times in my life. Well, what is good, I havent smoked in my job for nearly two years now, I spend that time hanging in internet and on the WOM:D
It´s a hard thing to do but I guess it´s worth it…

Posted on Wed, 3 November 2010 at 19:27

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Simon (Simon) wrote:

I have quits few times, and currently it’s been almost two years. I just stopped each time gum patches all that never helped. Guess the main thing is frame of mind. When I did finally stop properly each time I was just ready to stop, if your not then I never found me sticking to it. Going out I found the hardest or after a few beers. But I when I felt I wanted one I just took a deep breath gave myself a few minutes and the feeling went away. If I just went with my first instinct each time I would smoke. If I gave myself time to decide then I would realise it would be silly and over time the impulse became less and I no longer liked to taste or smell of them. And I haven’t slipped since. But each person is different.

Anyway good luck with it.

Posted on Thu, 4 November 2010 at 00:05

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mrs h wrote:

Top Tip (it really does work) If you get a craving, breathe in as deep as you can and then hold your breath till it starts to hurt. Then breathe out as slowly as you can. You won’t want a cig at all after that and it does give you a bit of a rush :) Anything that gets you out of breath will remove your cravings too.

And good luck!

Posted on Thu, 4 November 2010 at 13:38

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Jobrok (John O)))) wrote:

Smoke as many cigs as you can, as fast as you can!
Don’t stop! Even when you feel nausious!
Keep going until you puke your ring up!
You’ll never look at a ciggy the same way again.

Posted on Thu, 4 November 2010 at 15:03

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Gav wrote:

Swap tobacco for crack.

Posted on Thu, 4 November 2010 at 21:14

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Bad Karma wrote:

My ex gf smoked and tried to give up but her sister and mates smoked too so they were always tempting her. She’d only ever last a few weeks and she’d be back on them. Don’t think I could date a smoker again.

Posted on Thu, 4 November 2010 at 21:46

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fatboy wrote:

Guys, I’m glad I signed in when I saw this post as I went without for two months, only to start again when I went through a bad spell. I had been trying to give up on and off for years now, and the last time I wanted to give up, it was going very well until I hit a bout of lowness and started smoking daily again.

My mother says if I go through those days again, just buy a packet of 10 and try again the next day. She meant well but it hardly worked.

I used an inhalater and they do work and intend to go back to using that shortly. That said, I worry about those black days coming back and I go through several mood swings and want to smoke, what do I do then?

Cheers, and many congrets to those who have given up ;-)

Posted on Thu, 4 November 2010 at 22:48

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g (Does everything start with destruction?) wrote:

well on the night of my 3rd day in i fucked up. went round a mates and instead of turning down a bottle of beer i thought “whats the harm in a beer” then as i could smell smoke around me i gave in and asked someone for a fag, then bought a ten pack for whilst i was out (logic was, ive already smoked today, i’ll get cigarettes instead of tobacco as cigarettes have a much more ‘chemically’ taste and are easier to get sick of, i’ll get ten instead of twenty as i know i’ll give more than a few away to mates so i wont really smoke that many) , woke up today feeling stupid and noticing how much i stink of smoke. but thats made me even more determined to quit.

i might try that whiskey idea, reckon it would work with vodka? as thats all i’ve got to hand??

Posted on Fri, 5 November 2010 at 01:47

#18

fatboy wrote:

Gimme, relapses are not uncommon and I say that from experience, but three days ain’t that bad for a first go.

Posted on Fri, 5 November 2010 at 17:52

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Taunty Dan wrote:

deadsetgav wrote:

Swap tobacco for crack.

:D

Hmmm, wonder if it works the other way around…

Posted on Fri, 5 November 2010 at 23:30 in reply to an earlier post

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MisterHoppy wrote:

Decided to give up weed and tobacco at the same time last sunday, it was all ok untill tuesday when all i could think about was having a cigarette from about 8pm untill 3am. Been 10 -12 years since i haven’t smoked anything for more than a day, going ok but can feel the stress mounting up, will be much harder now I’m back home and in a house and at work with people having a fag regularly. Probably be posting 100 comments in the vent your spleen :mad: thread in the next few weeks.

Posted on Fri, 10 December 2010 at 21:43

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MisterHoppy wrote:

2 weeks!

Posted on Sun, 19 December 2010 at 16:59

#22

Lola wrote:

well done! that’s determination for ya! i’d say it wasn’t easy giving up both!

the vent your spleen thread does need to be resurrected so work away!

Posted on Tue, 21 December 2010 at 12:48

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LunacyBooth wrote:

I managed to quit by slowly introducing Swedish Snus. It gave me the nicotine buzz while I concentrated on getting used to not popping out for a smoke, not doing the physical action of smoking or smoking whilst drinking. Because I was getting a nicotine hit I found it easier to get used to not doing the other things. Once I’d sorted that I started cutting down on my Snus use until I had phased it out altogether. Not a method that will work for everyone though.

Posted on Tue, 21 December 2010 at 13:58

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Dennis (Dudley Less) wrote:

The idea of being able to put £5 in a jar every day from what you save by giving up smoking is great - I don’t smoke and I have no idea how anyone on an average wage can afford to, so the idea of £5 extra in my back pocket EVERY DAY is a phenomenal idea.

Another thing to remember is this: People give up smoking every day. People just like you. They give up forever. It is possible, do-able - People do it. Be one of them that does!

Posted on Tue, 21 December 2010 at 14:33

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fatboy wrote:

Gonna give it another go in the new year.

Posted on Tue, 21 December 2010 at 14:57

#26

crazy horse (crazy horse) wrote:

im a 20 a day guy +weed , and last year i had to go into hospital for two weeks(for somthing not tobacco related) ,so obviously was not allowed to smoke ,,and without my asking they put a non smoking patch on my arm ,and i can honestly say i didnt have one single urge to smoke at all ,although saying that i dont how much the daily doses of librium my have affected my demeanour ,anyway when i came home i resumed smoking (purley by personal choice) and my first few fags tasted absoltly fuckin disgusting

Posted on Wed, 22 December 2010 at 09:35

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Beefgrinder wrote:

It’s a tough one - nothing more addictive than nicotine. I gave up for New Years 2008, so that means coming up to 3 years now. Admittedly I’d only smoked more than a couple a day for about 3 years, but I went the same route - being disgusted with the idea, then social smoking, then a change of job and 10-15 a day. Cold turkey worked for me, but I’ve scarcely had a more agonising time than the first few days when I really was gasping for a fag. After a week or two, it becomes a lot easier, and then it’s just a matter of staying consistent, and as others have said, never having ‘just the one’, because it never is.

Best of luck guys!

Posted on Wed, 22 December 2010 at 19:30

#28

MisterHoppy wrote:

8 weeks now, getting easier all the time. Was round a friends the other day for a couple of hours and was the only person not smoking out of about 10, woke up the next day and my throat felt like it was on fire!

Posted on Sun, 30 January 2011 at 14:17

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mrs h wrote:

Dennis wrote:

The idea of being able to put £5 in a jar every day from what you save by giving up smoking is great - I don’t smoke and I have no idea how anyone on an average wage can afford to, so the idea of £5 extra in my back pocket EVERY DAY is a phenomenal idea.

Another thing to remember is this: People give up smoking every day. People just like you. They give up forever. It is possible, do-able - People do it. Be one of them that does!

That is the most cheesy line I have ever seen on the WoM, Dave, you should be ashamed of yourself :p

Mister Hoppy - well done and good luck. And you made the right decision - giving up smoking is nearly impossible if you don’t give up the weed too. Stick to monkey dust :)

Posted on Sun, 30 January 2011 at 14:30 in reply to an earlier post

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smeghead (Anna) wrote:

I had 3 cigs last night. So much for a New Year’s resolution. Did I enjoy them? Yes. Am I now hacking up phlegm? Yes.
I blame the vodka. The vodka told me to do it.

Posted on Sun, 6 February 2011 at 18:17

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