Wall of Mouths

That’s really true, I’ve seen it with many people, even with people you didn’t expect to change. It can ruin a once very good friendship, sad but true!

People don’t change, they “grow”. I know that in myself. Getting older, I’ve realised I don’t have anything in common with my “schoolfriends” anymore. But I’ve met other friends more in tune with me. I think you become more “selective”.

This thing reminds me of a friend of mine living very far from me, leaving mails, e-mails and chatrooms as the only options to hear from each other. There was a time she was online ‘til late every night and it was cool to talk so often. I had found out she had just met a guy on the internet, who also lived quite far from my friend, and the only reason why she was so often online was to talk to him. It surprised me because she would always complaining about how tired she was and everything, yet she would stay up all night at the internet cafe. Now she’s not doing that anymore. The “affair” with the guy didn’t work, so no more point to log on to chat. I do sometimes ask her if she’s up for a quick chat just to see how things are going but the reply is the same every time: she’s tired or busy or depressed. The thing is, friends who just find themselves someone of the opposite sex - in some cases the same sex - usually take their best friends for granted. They ignore you for months while they can’t go out unless their bf/gf is with them and they think you will always be there for them. They can’t ingore their partner because, God knows, maybe they’re scared to lose him/her.
Then your phone is ringing and you see their number calling you, and you suddenly think, “oh, they split…”

For some weird reason..and I can’t remember for the life of me why, but punishment kiss got me together with a girl once.