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Started by timfrichards (Deleted)

Tell you what irks me.

All these people going to prison etc for viewing child pornography…

Let me first say that I believe that it’s sick and really quite unbelievable in our modern world, but…

WHY can people get access to this stuff? How come any pervert can give their credit card number and view it? Isn’t it about time the ISPs and/or the Government helped to regulate the internet a little?

Are the ISPs perverts?

Are the government?

Tim.

Posted on Sat, 18 January 2003 at 03:09

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mr self destruct wrote:

And how would that work, exactly?

Posted on Sat, 18 January 2003 at 11:36

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opalmantra wrote:

I personally never saw links or anything relating to child pornography. I’m not gonna search for it either!
Maybe newgroups? Is it really that easy to find?
Each country has their own rules. Internet is a widespread medium. I don’t think it’s controllable. When you ban a server, a new one pops up in somewhere else.
I don’t believe in censorship. Mostly it works the wrong way round. Just teach some morals. :D

Posted on Sat, 18 January 2003 at 16:58

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White Psycho wrote:

it kinda similar to downloading mp3s, one site is shut down but another pops up and everyone shifts to that one until its shutdown etc etc. I’m afraid its not something that gonna go away.

Posted on Sat, 18 January 2003 at 18:37

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Barbie wrote:

This was on Kilroy (not that I watch it). Child porn shouldn’t be on the internet but then, to be fair - it is quite hard to find. I mean, you have to make an effort to find it. They were saying that just by viewing a picture of a child being abused, you’re indirectly abusing the child. I don’t know though, certainly the people who put stuff on the net are worse than the people who look at it.

Posted on Sat, 18 January 2003 at 20:47

#5

Michael wrote:

There is no worse crime than abusing a child, anybody doing it doesn’t deserve to live. May their souls burn in hell.

Posted on Sun, 19 January 2003 at 14:18

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timfrichards (Deleted) wrote:

Absolutely, I agree entirely. May their souls rot.

But, I DON’T think child porn would be hard to find at all. I have never tried, but I honestly think that if you used a multiple search agent, such as Copernic, you would find it easily. That’s the scary thing. I don’t think that it IS hard to find. The advertisers of this disgusting stuff WANT it to be found - how are they going to make their money otherwise?

The solution is, mr self destruct, for the internet to be regulated “at source”. How would that be done? Simple. No problem. But our Government is more intent on encoraging technology rather than appearing to restrict it.

Don’t believe that the Internet has to be unrestricted. It’s a lie.

And relate “child porn” to buying a magazine at your Newsagent.

At your Newsagent, you buy what’s on offer. If it wasn’t there, you wouldn’t buy it. Compare that with the Internet. Think about it.

If anyone wants to join me in this crusade, write to:

timfrichards@email.com

Tim.

Posted on Sat, 25 January 2003 at 03:03

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mr self destruct wrote:

timfrichards wrote:

And relate “child porn” to buying a magazine at your Newsagent.

At your Newsagent, you buy what’s on offer. If it wasn’t there, you wouldn’t buy it. Compare that with the Internet. Think about it.

If anyone wants to join me in this crusade, write to:

timfrichards@email.com

Tim.

No I don’t. I buy the magazine I’m interested in.

What a very silly argument yours is: “it’s out there, so people are going to look at it”. In my opinion, that’s complete rubbish, and I profoundly disagree with government censorship.

Good luck on your “crusade” though! :)

Posted on Sat, 25 January 2003 at 12:59

#8

timfrichards (Deleted) wrote:

Thank you (I think) for your confused reply.

But as I mentioned in another post… I really can’t be bothered to talk to you.

Everyone - this is personal. I have made a judgement about “mr self destruct” and intend to stick to it. What YOU think about him is up to you.

But me, I can be inflammatory, I know, but always polite.

Tim.

Posted on Sun, 26 January 2003 at 02:56

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Citizen Erased wrote:

Getting ISPs to comply is going to be difficult, due to the international nature of the internet and the ease with which people can set up web services and so on - most uses of the web are plebs (like me!) without much technical knowledge on how to stop this kind of thing.

I think there are 2 points to make:

1) Ban viewing such sites - this is hard to police admittedly, but I’m only suggesting it in lieu of anything better. Anyone found guilty of accessing such material in the UK should (and I believe, is) be punished

2) Increase international action to prevent such sites setting up. - ISPs seem to have a similar argument to arms manufacturers in that what other people do with their services is not their problem, but an increase in multinational pressure to enforce a strong code (or just legisltate for ISPs in your country) would be a start. Again, hard to police, however the measures brought in since 9/11 to crack down on money laundering (again, very hard to police), show that this can be done when there is sufficient political will.

As for the ‘people will look if the stuff’s there’argument, I think that that’s unfortunately true (the addiction rate to Heroin in Middlesbrough shot up when supplies became easier to obtain). Some people are curious (and sick) and others are just sick but can control themselves if the alternative is directly interferring with kids, but if it’s out there, it will be viewed.

Posted on Mon, 27 January 2003 at 09:59

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Barbie wrote:

*wonders what ‘ISP’ means*

Posted on Mon, 27 January 2003 at 20:15

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hoochalobster (Sarah) Super Moderator wrote:

Internet Service Provider (eg Freeserve, AOL etc) :D

Posted on Mon, 27 January 2003 at 21:07

#12

Barbie wrote:

oh right :)
i feel silly now

Posted on Tue, 28 January 2003 at 21:45

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Isness wrote:

hoochalobster wrote:

Internet Service Provider (eg Freeserve)

That’s what they’re calling them these days then?

The people looking at the sites are far less to blame than the people putting the sites up, I think.
Paedophilia is just a sexual orientation - you can’t lock someone away for having thoughts about children, it’s in no way their fault.
Of course, actually viewing child pornography is a different matter, and that’s where the problem lies, I believe.
And then that just brings up problems of ‘if the sites didn’t exist, would these people go out and do it themselves?’, and I believe in this case, the sites to be the lesser evil.
Which doesn’t make them any better in themselves.
It’s a subject I’m torn on.
The only practical way to attempt to stop it is the punishment of those viewing it, and yet that seems to be punishing the least ‘guilty’ of everyone involved. (um, except for the children)
I think.
I have a headache.

Posted on Tue, 28 January 2003 at 22:11

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donVutz wrote:

Isness wrote:

Paedophilia is just a sexual orientation - you can’t lock someone away for having thoughts about children, it’s in no way their fault.

yep, absolutly right. had many arguments with people about this point.

Quote (author unknown):

And then that just brings up problems of ‘if the sites didn’t exist, would these people go out and do it themselves?’, and I believe in this case, the sites to be the lesser evil.

is this the lesser evil? one child getting raped instead of , let’s say, 20? sure, somehow it makes sense, but than again not. truely something to give you headache.
it’s a pretty difficult topic i think and very hard to discus.
i think the sharing of those pictures or movies via e-mail can’t be stopped, but there must be a way to stop the presence of it on the net.

Posted on Tue, 28 January 2003 at 23:19

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hoochalobster (Sarah) Super Moderator wrote:

Anyone see the program on BBC2 tonight? I feel tres sick. I think it’s a sorry state of affairs when a man can abuse children and make child pornography for 30 years and then get sentenced to a pitiful 6 for it.

I think Citizen Erased has the right idea. Making and possessing child porn is illegal and the servers who host it online should be held responsible as well as the individuals involved. If they know that they will be charged and/or heavily fined if they host such things then they’ll probably be a lot quicker to clamp down.

Posted on Wed, 29 January 2003 at 01:08

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penn wrote:

hoochalobster wrote:

I think Citizen Erased has the right idea. Making and possessing child porn is illegal and the servers who host it online should be held responsible as well as the individuals involved. If they know that they will be charged and/or heavily fined if they host such things then they’ll probably be a lot quicker to clamp down.

is it not illegal to host a site of child pornography?
i think it is (at least where i live).
these servers are usually in countries where there’s not a law about viewing child pornography.

Posted on Wed, 29 January 2003 at 08:36

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Sabotage wrote:

hoochalobster wrote:

Anyone see the program on BBC2 tonight? I feel tres sick. I think it’s a sorry state of affairs when a man can abuse children and make child pornography for 30 years and then get sentenced to a pitiful 6 for it.

I think Citizen Erased has the right idea. Making and possessing child porn is illegal and the servers who host it online should be held responsible as well as the individuals involved. If they know that they will be charged and/or heavily fined if they host such things then they’ll probably be a lot quicker to clamp down.

I saw that. I watched the programmes from a year or so ago when the investigations started.

I agree with your last paragraph there Hooch.
I’ve no idea how easy or difficult the Internet is to police, but that shouldn’t stop it BEING policed I reckon.

Posted on Wed, 29 January 2003 at 09:04

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hoochalobster (Sarah) Super Moderator wrote:

penn wrote:

is it not illegal to host a site of child pornography?
i think it is (at least where i live).
these servers are usually in countries where there’s not a law about viewing child pornography.

I don’t know, it doesn’t much look like it. The recent cases here in the UK with celebrities involved refer to a pay-for child porn site based in America.

Posted on Wed, 29 January 2003 at 20:40

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dano wrote:

It’s a weird subject paedophilia, I don’t think any other topic raises as much emotion as this.

The main question is why do people do it? If you could get into what makes somebody attracted to children you’d be on course to perhaps find out how to stop it, but as has already been stated here you can’t just stop somebody’s sexual orientation.

I think that one problem is that people don’t want to try to go deeper into finding out why it happens, most people seem to be happier crying out for blood and vengenance than trying to find out a long term way of stopping it at the root. A lot of abusers seem to have been victims in the past ( which ties in with Pete Townsend’s claims ), so is there some kind of deep rooted pyscological cycle that needs to be tapped into and broken? Sometimes we seem to be happier sweeping hard to understand issues under the carpet rather than confronting them head on.

But then you look at another angle..media representation. I was looking at recent stories about Matthew Kelly appearing in a stage play. The paper was extremely damning that the audience dared to applaud him. Now then, whatever your opinion maybe of him, the bottom line is that as of yet he’s not been found guilty of anything, yet he’s still being presented in the paper as a monster who’s guilty.

It’s the stigma of paedophilia, and once it’s attached it seems to stick..the same stigma that lead to the brutual attack and near murder of somebody at the hands of a vigilante gang..his crime? He was a paedeotrician for god’s sake! And that’s what scares me about all these newspaper accusations. People generally are far too ill educated or just plain thick to cope with all the facts, they’d rather go out and kick the shit out of somebody than listen to any debate on the issue. Thankfully that doesn’t seem to be the case with the people on here I’d hasten to add.

Anybody here who is a UK resident can’t have failed to have missed the furore caused by the transmission of the Brasseye paedophile special. Here we had newspapers condem the show as sick, vile and disgusting filth ( despite the fact that some of them by their own admission didn’t even watch it )..yet on the opposite page of one very vocally opposing newspaper there was a big feature devoted to Charlotte Church’s developing cleaveage, and she had only turned 15 at the time.

Somebody at work said that paedophilia was robbing children of their innocence, but we live in a society that does that to so many on a frequent basis irrespective of how their lives pan out.

If we are to try and solve the problem of paedophilia, then I think it’s time people started looking into it more in depth, it’s all very well metting out punishments for the crime, but at the end of the day people get back out there. To try and erradicate the problem you need to find out the cause and stop it there.

Posted on Thu, 30 January 2003 at 04:59

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Barbie wrote:

i do not know how to quote…

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It’s the stigma of paedophilia, and once it’s attached it seems to stick..the same stigma that lead to the brutual attack and near murder of somebody at the hands of a vigilante gang..his crime? He was a paedeotrician for god’s sake!

That apparantly was blown out of proportion and didn’t really happen that way at all. It was on that morning programme with Nicki Chapman.
I don’t know; it’s so taboo everyone just gets mislead.

It’s so vile though.

When I have kids I’m keeping them under lock and key ‘til they’re 30.

Posted on Thu, 30 January 2003 at 21:55

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dano wrote:

The incident I was reffering to happened about 4 years ago if I recall correctly, and it was that which actually led to Chris Morris writing the BrassEye special.

I haven’t seen the show you were reffering to, so I can’t say if it’s the same event or a seperate one.

Posted on Fri, 31 January 2003 at 01:25

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Citizen Erased wrote:

I’m fairly sure it did happen after one of the tabloids did it’s name and shame thing

Posted on Fri, 31 January 2003 at 10:17

#23

White Psycho wrote:

The Brass Eye special was amazing, people didn’t seen to understand that it was a piss take of the tabloid’s reaction to the whole thing and not paedophilia itself

Posted on Fri, 31 January 2003 at 16:35

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Barbie wrote:

I didn’t say it didn’t happen. It happened but the details were wrong and stuff. I don’t think it was exactly as straight forward as it’s made out.
was brasseye the thing with the pictures in the art gallery and the guy?…i have a vague recollection…oh and the dog and when the child felt it it was feeling the man…and the song leave me alone or something..

Posted on Fri, 31 January 2003 at 20:51

#25

White Psycho wrote:

yeah that was from brasseye, also “This man has disguised himself as a school in order to lure children”

Posted on Sat, 1 February 2003 at 17:15

#26

dano wrote:

We’re sort of straying off the topic a little now!

My main point is how the tabloids/ media use all these stories about paedophilia and really sensationalise them to sell more copies, paedophilia has been pretty much non stop front page material over the past few weeks, so it’s obviously a subject with a lot of mileage in it, yet if a war starts in Iraq it will be consigned to page 4 or 5 in an instant.

So web sites are making money from selling paedophilic images, but newspapers are making money from sensationilising it, so to me that makes them just as bad, or worse in some respects.

On a side note: can anybody remember which newspaper ran a campaign to get Chris Morris prosecuted every day in their pages, until right in the middle of it their editor was arrested on paedophile charges?

Posted on Sun, 2 February 2003 at 00:37

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