Wall of Mouths

I’m really sorry for you and your brother man. I wish both of you all the strenght for the coming period in processing this loss.

I’d like to add something.

Before I read your message I too felt completely depressed because of something that happend only two hours ago. I won’t go into details because this tread isn’t about me.

But by reading you message I realised that there are more important things to think about.

Care for and love the people who are close to you.

:(

I’m sorry to hear that 3ddo-on-the-balcony i really don’t what to say except i hope you and you’re family are ok through this very difficult time.

My deepest sympathy for the loss of your father. I know how you feel, I lost my father about 2 years ago, he had cancer.

Although I don’t know you, I think that sharing your emotions with other people is the best way of dealing with the loss of someone your dearly love.

Take care..

i can’t possibley imagen how you feel. i have had family members that were very close die, and it took months to sink in. i can only say what others have, but make sure you tell people how you feel because bottleing things in only does alot of harm to yourself, i did/do that and i have not got M.E as a concequence which is something you do not need at the time in your life. every little problem i get i always think that people are much worse off than me and i somehow feel better. but of course whats worse than a death?
im sorry for you and your family and friends

Thank you all, good people, for your reactions. Sharing my grief with you, of whom quite a lot share my fate, helps me to cope with my loss. It also makes me realise I was fortunate to have my dad around me for a longer time than some of you. I really hope you have good memories of your dad as well.

Now, after two weeks, I start to get out of this cocoon I was in. I started working again, taking up my daily routine and it’s only now that my father’s death becomes reality. I come face to face with my sorrow at moments that I’m not ready for it; at work, during rehearsals with my band. But I don’t want to hold it back. I know it’s a process I have to go through, and fortunately I don’t have to do it all by myself.

What gives me strenth is the fact that through the years we put aside the conflicts we had. We respected and loved each other and I know he was proud of me, alhough he never said it in so many words; he had his own way of showing it. I’m grateful he was my dad and still proud to be his son; cheers dad!