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Do men ever leave for the other woman?

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Started by tartanskirtgirl in Chit-Chat

Well do they - mine says he will - need some expert type advice and am fed up with Cosmo…

Posted on Sun, 7 November 2004 at 20:52

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hoochalobster (Sarah) Super Moderator wrote:

Not meaning to sound harsh…but why would he? If he’s got both of you on his plate, where’s his motivation?

Posted on Sun, 7 November 2004 at 21:19

#2

Sabotage wrote:

I did once. Big mistake.
I should never have had the “other woman”.
I ended it and stayed with the missus after a couple of weeks.

Posted on Sun, 7 November 2004 at 23:20

#3

White Psycho wrote:

I wouldn’t, its a commitment and shouldn’t be ended just like that

Posted on Mon, 8 November 2004 at 01:59

#4

3ddo-on-the-balcony (eddo) wrote:

I wouldn’t either. I just can’t live without her, commitment or not.

Posted on Mon, 8 November 2004 at 07:18

#5

Auto_Surgery (Mad Axe Man) wrote:

It depends how big her breasts were.

That was a joke.

Posted on Mon, 8 November 2004 at 08:44

#6

allroy wrote:

Do women ever leave for the other man?

Sorry, but the question sounds pointless to me.

Posted on Mon, 8 November 2004 at 10:05

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marja (sinner) wrote:

allroy wrote:

Do women ever leave for the other man?

I did, and as it turned out it was a big mistake, would do it never ever again. But I learned a lot, and it made me to who I am today, so I don’t know if it was such a bad thing. It made me feel horrible tough

Posted on Mon, 8 November 2004 at 10:20

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4eva wrote:

marja wrote:

I did, and as it turned out it was a big mistake, would do it never ever again. But I learned a lot, and it made me to who I am today, so I don’t know if it was such a bad thing. It made me feel horrible tough

ahhhhh… .thats touching :)

Posted on Mon, 8 November 2004 at 10:21

#9

allroy wrote:

marja wrote:

But I learned a lot, and it made me to who I am today, so I don’t know if it was such a bad thing.

Do you want an honest answer? :p

To get back to the original question: I wouldn’t like persons (to use a non-genderspecific expression) not to be able to make up their minds, get rid of their actual partner before or as soon as you find someone else. I wouldn’t feel secure if the other person would be able to live with a lie.

Posted on Mon, 8 November 2004 at 10:25

#10

marja (sinner) wrote:

you never knew me before that, so you couldn’t possibly answer in an honest way. But 4eva is right: a very mooving story :)

Posted on Mon, 8 November 2004 at 10:27

#11

allroy wrote:

Wow, you’ve even been meaner than you are now? :p

Posted on Mon, 8 November 2004 at 10:29

#12

4eva wrote:

Stop being mean to everyone!!! First its annoying me with someone that YOU reckon it fitter than neil (100%not true for anyone reading!)AAAAHHHHH!!!! :D

Posted on Mon, 8 November 2004 at 10:32

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marja (sinner) wrote:

allroy wrote:

Wow, you’ve even been meaner than you are now? :p

STUFF IT

touchy subject so lay off

Posted on Mon, 8 November 2004 at 10:34

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4eva wrote:

YEAH - you tell him! :D

Posted on Mon, 8 November 2004 at 10:35

#15

allroy wrote:

Good heavens, how i hate this typical female behaviour (sorry, but I’m honest about this). :mad:

But I’ll obey. :)

Posted on Mon, 8 November 2004 at 10:39

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marja (sinner) wrote:

good boy :)

Was I too hard on you :)

see I’m not mean

Posted on Mon, 8 November 2004 at 10:42

#17

4eva wrote:

allroy wrote:

Good heavens, how i hate this typical female behaviour (sorry, but I’m honest about this). :mad:

But I’ll obey. :)

ooooooooooooooooooooooooooo … … . .
calm down :rolleyes:

Posted on Mon, 8 November 2004 at 10:42

#18

4eva wrote:

marja wrote:

good boy :)

Was I too hard on you :)

see I’m not mean

friends again?!? :D

Posted on Mon, 8 November 2004 at 10:42

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marja (sinner) wrote:

do you need an other virtual rose :p?

Posted on Mon, 8 November 2004 at 10:48

#20

allroy wrote:

Hey, this whining tactics work. :p
No, it was just about time you ever hit a subject that’s sensitive for me.

But as I’m not such a female sissy I can take it like a man. :cool:

@4eva: sure, but you have to take a look at these pics :p
fitter than neil
and he can even sing

Posted on Mon, 8 November 2004 at 10:55

#21

marja (sinner) wrote:

LOL

Love his shorts. In Geel he was wearing one with flames. He’s so funny.

Posted on Mon, 8 November 2004 at 10:57

#22

4eva wrote:

allroy wrote:

Hey, this whining tactics work. :p
No, it was just about time you ever hit a subject that’s sensitive for me.

But as I’m not such a female sissy I can take it like a man. :cool:

@4eva: sure, but you have to take a look at these pics :p
fitter than neil
and he can even sing

are you having a laugh??!!??!!??
he is bloody gross!!!
eeeerrrrrr!!! :mad: how can you even say he is fitter than neil??!???

Posted on Mon, 8 November 2004 at 10:59

#23

allroy wrote:

You ladies always say you like men that make you laugh. :p

More drooling about sexy drummers in our personal chamber, please. This topic might be regarded as too sensitive to chat within it as we have seen just recently.:)

Posted on Mon, 8 November 2004 at 11:02

#24

4eva wrote:

what does that mean? i don’t understand:(

Posted on Mon, 8 November 2004 at 11:03

#25

allroy wrote:

We’ve got this thread in ‘Test the messageboards’, you know.
I just think that this thread might be started by someone wanting to hear serious opinions about this topic and our banter might be disrespectful.

Posted on Mon, 8 November 2004 at 11:05

#26

marja (sinner) wrote:

that’s right so I’ll just stop writting nonsense here

Posted on Mon, 8 November 2004 at 11:06

#27

4eva wrote:

allroy wrote:

We’ve got this thread in ‘Test the messagenoards’, you know.
I just think that this thread might be started by someone wanting to hear serious opinions about this topic and our banter might be disrespectful.

oh . . ok . . sorry, seem to always sway the topic to one subject inparticuar..
im off now anyway to leave you lot talk serious stuff…

Bye

Posted on Mon, 8 November 2004 at 11:06

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Misanthropologist (d) wrote:

hoochalobster wrote:

Not meaning to sound harsh…but why would he? If he’s got both of you on his plate, where’s his motivation?

This… depresses me.

Posted on Mon, 8 November 2004 at 12:14

#29

mr self destruct wrote:

allroy wrote:

I just think that this thread might be started by someone wanting to hear serious opinions about this topic and our banter might be disrespectful.

The biggest thread hijacker around getting all moralistic!

Posted on Mon, 8 November 2004 at 12:31

#30

allroy wrote:

I’ll take that as a compliment and recommend listening to one of the finest songs Superchunk have ever recorded: Hit Self-Destruct. :p

Posted on Mon, 8 November 2004 at 12:39

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