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Started by Ronald in Chit-Chat

Ok, 17 years ago my dad died of a heart attack at the age of 38. he didn’t have any haelath problems at all. Today my uncle has died of a heart attack at the age of 46—> My grandma is going to burry her second son, and somehow I think this is just all too much for her. He collapsed in front of my other grandmas house, and my aunt( his sister) saw it happening…Hitchcock scenario! I am feeling fucked because of his death and because of all the bad memories I have about my fathers death,…no…happy Ronald is not so happy for the moment…and this is where Therapy? fits in…I am gonna play some Therapy?tunes to lose my anger,to give my sadness a place, to cry…to…get drunk!

Posted on Tue, 1 March 2005 at 23:43

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Misanthropologist (d) wrote:

:( My sympathies.

Posted on Tue, 1 March 2005 at 23:45

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Ronald wrote:

at 7-2my brother became a father:7-2=5, my grandma had 7 children -2=5, my dad was born 5-5-1950 en should have turned 55 at 5-5-2005…

Posted on Tue, 1 March 2005 at 23:54

#3

zipless wrote:

Sorry to be hearing this, Ronald. Take care!

Posted on Tue, 1 March 2005 at 23:54

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hoochalobster (Sarah) Super Moderator wrote:

Bad news. *big WoMbles hugs*

Posted on Wed, 2 March 2005 at 00:05

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Divers (Simon) wrote:

Sorry to hear that, and look after yourself mate.

Posted on Wed, 2 March 2005 at 00:15

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allroy wrote:

My heartfelt sympathy for you.

Posted on Wed, 2 March 2005 at 01:23

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Poque Mahone wrote:

Really sorry to hear that!
As I told before in some other thread, my mother died when she was 36. In two months my grandfather and uncle died. Later my father left our family and I had to live with step-mother and -father. I was thinking what the fuck is going on in my life!
So, I might know a little bit what you are going through at the moment. It takes time but sooner or later you learn to live with it. Sometimes those bad feelings are still coming back though there´s no reason for that. Might happen to you aswell. Hope not! Anyway, that kind of things always feel so unfare…
Take care mate! Hope you´re feeling better as soon as possible!

Posted on Wed, 2 March 2005 at 07:10

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motherh666 wrote:

:(

Posted on Wed, 2 March 2005 at 08:37

#9

deadsetgav wrote:

Take care bud!

Posted on Wed, 2 March 2005 at 15:48

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gapu wrote:

i just dont know what to say… i feel your pain… i am pretty sorry…

take care, mate!!!

somehow.. may it sounds chezzy, but in a way is a forum, like that (if you already talked often to those guys here.. and you have some kind of relationship, say a good relationship) than it can be something like a shoulder to cry at.. i already had a friend from tokio… he also felt really fucking bad.. we wrote a lot via email..

Posted on Wed, 2 March 2005 at 16:02

#11

Ronald wrote:

Just went for a 7 mile run, through the snow with some noisy rock blasting in my ears…I feel a little better now and tonight I am off to see Biffy Clyro over here in Rotterdam, but this is tough, very tough…thanks for the kind words!

Posted on Wed, 2 March 2005 at 16:23

#12

Flo wrote:

Hi Ronald,

My deepest sympathy, I am sorry to hear this. I know how it feels to lose someone very dear so suddenly. I hope that you get some comfort out of the messages on this board. Take care of yourself.

Flo.

Posted on Wed, 2 March 2005 at 18:35

#13

Citizen Erased wrote:

That’s really rough, man. You have my condolences as well.

Posted on Wed, 2 March 2005 at 22:34

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3ddo-on-the-balcony (eddo) wrote:

Man, I feel very sorry for you. I kind of know how you must feel and I wish you a lot of strength!

Posted on Thu, 3 March 2005 at 11:30

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ctrlaltdelete (chris) wrote:

Title: im with u man

Just over a week ago my grandma died, 2 days later on my b’day I get a phone call from my mum saying that her son(my mums brother, my uncle) had died the day after my gran…The double funeral was on the 26th, 2 days after what would have been her 90th birthday, in the same church we had for my grandads funeral.It was then I remembered it from 16 years before… They were buried together in my grandads grave…
Life has a funny way of reminding you about stuff…
Something struck me though when I was talking to my aunt.My gran had always hoped to stay around for as long as possible because my uncle had mental health problems…she’d always looked out for him, and hoped that her passing wouldnt be too hard for him…It was kind of almost poetic that a day after she died, he did too…and that they were buried together with my grandad…In a way, she never left him…

Death is probably the harshest of the hands life will deal you…Im sure all on this board will agree that we’re here for you bro, and that you’re not alone…

Posted on Thu, 3 March 2005 at 11:50

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gapu wrote:

ctrlaltdelete wrote:

Death is probably the harshest of the hands life will deal you…Im sure all on this board will agree that we’re here for you bro, and that you’re not alone…

thats right! up to know i can say luckily that i didnt lose anyone who was that near to me… but i know what it probably feels like.. honestly i often think about that.. cause i may be scared of that when the time is right…

anyway we’re all here to stand by your side…

Posted on Thu, 3 March 2005 at 13:50

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romy wrote:

i am so sorry to hear that :( myself, i lost my grandmother on the 24th of feb.but with her,i was at least somehow ‘prepared’. i sensed it.

Posted on Mon, 7 March 2005 at 13:59

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Ronald wrote:

and yet again an other front row seat reserved at the cemetery for me and my family…I am getting sick and tired of this:(

Posted on Tue, 17 May 2005 at 09:27

#19

Bad Karma wrote:

I’m very sorry to hear about your loss Ronald and i hope you and your family are ok throught this difficult time,take care dude!

Posted on Tue, 17 May 2005 at 10:33

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Poque Mahone wrote:

Fucking unbelievable:( I´m with you! What else can I say…

Posted on Tue, 17 May 2005 at 11:28

#21

Ronald wrote:

The worst part about this is that I know for a fact that the dark days before Christmas are not over yet: The death of my grandfather will be too much for my lovely grandmom, she’ll never be able to enjoy life any more,she already wasn’t in the best mood…march the 1st she had 3 people to look after and 2 months later she is alone…I hate going to that cemetery…thanks for the sympathy!

Posted on Tue, 17 May 2005 at 11:56

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tgE wrote:

Poque Mahone wrote:

Really sorry to hear that!
As I told before in some other thread, my mother died when she was 36. In two months my grandfather and uncle died. Later my father left our family and I had to live with step-mother and -father. I was thinking what the fuck is going on in my life!
So, I might know a little bit what you are going through at the moment. It takes time but sooner or later you learn to live with it. Sometimes those bad feelings are still coming back though there´s no reason for that. Might happen to you aswell. Hope not! Anyway, that kind of things always feel so unfare…
Take care mate! Hope you´re feeling better as soon as possible!

that is almost identical to me except my mother was 33 and my dad didn’t leave. although i ended up abandoning him!

best wishes ronald!

Posted on Tue, 17 May 2005 at 13:06

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