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Started by marja (sinner) in Chit-Chat

How is it that people control themselfs when their obviously losing their temper?

I need to know because I think I will be needing this info today :). I have this new assistant, she’s horrible. Not in the talking to-kind of way, but she doesn’t understand a thing. I explained one simple thing to her over and over again, I even made her print-screens with the explanation about what she had to put in every line, and still she does it wrong. yesterday, I nearly lost it. And if things arne’t better today, I think I will be screaming at her, but that’s not the professional way to da it right? :)

I tried breathing in and out very slowly, that didn’t work. And counting to ten didn’t work either. All I want to do is hit her.

Give me some tricks

Posted on Fri, 8 July 2005 at 07:02

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#1

GreenThing wrote:

Give her a nice slap. You’ll lose your job and never have to see the silly bitch again! :D

Posted on Fri, 8 July 2005 at 07:26

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soul doubt (an) wrote:

Throw her out of the window, make it look like an accident… If you’re not on the groundfloor.
Act like a bitch, she’ll look for another job soon!

Posted on Fri, 8 July 2005 at 07:51

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marja’s post on Fri, 8 July 2005 at 07:57 was deleted by a moderator

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marja’s post on Fri, 8 July 2005 at 07:57 was deleted by a moderator

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marja (sinner) wrote:

that’s the best part of it. I CAN sack her, and I already told my boss that it will not work out, but he told me to wait a bit longer. So I have to endure her stupidity for a bit longer

Posted on Fri, 8 July 2005 at 07:57

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marja (sinner) wrote:

oeps computer made a mistake? hooch could please delete two of the three messages above

Posted on Fri, 8 July 2005 at 07:59

#7

allroy wrote:

Just try it over and over again, like multiple postings. :D

And remember: she’s a woman. So what did you expect? :p

Posted on Fri, 8 July 2005 at 07:59

#8

marja (sinner) wrote:

i didn’t pick her, it was decided during my holiday.

Posted on Fri, 8 July 2005 at 08:00

#9

motherh666 wrote:

Sexually harrass her. Usually works for me.

Posted on Fri, 8 July 2005 at 08:19

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marja (sinner) wrote:

she’s 55, no thank you.
I stayed in my office all morning and she just called me once, so that’s good. But now I want some coffee so I have to pass her desk, and I don’t want to

Posted on Fri, 8 July 2005 at 08:46

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marja (sinner) wrote:

soul doubt wrote:

If you’re not on the groundfloor.
Act like a bitch, she’ll look for another job soon!

oh so you think i’m not a bitch already, that’s nice :)

Posted on Fri, 8 July 2005 at 08:46

#12

deadsetgav wrote:

get some coffee and ‘accidentally’ spill it over her as you walk back - she will get the message :)

Posted on Fri, 8 July 2005 at 08:47

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marja (sinner) wrote:

but the broken glasses on her nose could look like an attack :)

I’m going there now, wish me luck :)

Posted on Fri, 8 July 2005 at 08:49

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motherh666 wrote:

marja wrote:

she’s 55, no thank you.

And? You know the saying “The old horses ride the best”, get in there luv. :D

Posted on Fri, 8 July 2005 at 08:50

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deadsetgav wrote:

marja wrote:

but the broken glasses on her nose could look like an attack :)

Well dont hit her with the cup afterwards :)

Posted on Fri, 8 July 2005 at 08:52

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soul doubt (an) wrote:

marja wrote:

But now I want some coffee so I have to pass her desk, and I don’t want to

Call her and scream “coffee!!”

Posted on Fri, 8 July 2005 at 08:58

#17

soul doubt (an) wrote:

marja wrote:

oh so you think i’m not a bitch already, that’s nice :)

doh… act like a bitch even more then? ;)

Posted on Fri, 8 July 2005 at 08:59

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marja (sinner) wrote:

so I’m back, and ofcourse she called me and asked an other stupid question

and now I got her answer she sent to a consumer and it’s completely wrong after I practically spelled it out for her :rolleyes: some people

Posted on Fri, 8 July 2005 at 09:05

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soul doubt (an) wrote:

hmm… 55, she’ll only have to work another 10 year or so… It could be worse, she could have been 20 :D

Posted on Fri, 8 July 2005 at 09:25

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marja (sinner) wrote:

that’s true :D

On monday morning next week, she will spent the whole morning with my boss, let’s see how long he can keep his cool :)

Posted on Fri, 8 July 2005 at 09:29

#21

McKekS wrote:

It could be worse, it could be me.

;)

Posted on Fri, 8 July 2005 at 09:40

#22

White Psycho wrote:

I’ve only seen myself truely lose my temper once and I never want a repeat as it ended in someone’s head being smashed against a wall :( I get frustrated and pissed off, but I won’t allow myself to get angry.

Posted on Fri, 8 July 2005 at 11:57

#23

McKekS wrote:

man! you are psycho :D ;)

Posted on Fri, 8 July 2005 at 12:52

#24

RobbyVDH wrote:

Is she blond by any chance?

Posted on Fri, 8 July 2005 at 15:22

#25

marja (sinner) wrote:

offcourse

she’s gone now, I managed to avoid for most of the day by going out on a very long lunch with just the ladies of the office and the boss (he likes that :)) and by pretending to have way too much work to do to answer her question. I hope next week will be or better or without her

Posted on Fri, 8 July 2005 at 15:25

#26

RobbyVDH wrote:

My boss is blond as well :(

Sometimes I REALLY need to step out of her office to get some fresh air just because of the comments she makes, but for the rest we get along fine :D

Posted on Fri, 8 July 2005 at 15:26

#27

marja (sinner) wrote:

I have a male boss, so we make jokes about women with big boobies. that’s much more fun :)

Posted on Fri, 8 July 2005 at 15:45

#28

RobbyVDH wrote:

Cool boss :D

Posted on Fri, 8 July 2005 at 16:10

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soul doubt (an) wrote:

RobbyVDH wrote:

My boss is blond as well :(

Sometimes I REALLY need to step out of her office to get some fresh air just because of the comments she makes, but for the rest we get along fine :D

My collegue is blond, and she’s making the most silly comments you can imagine… she doesn’t know how to “wake” a portable, she started hitting the screen :rolleyes:

Posted on Fri, 8 July 2005 at 21:18

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White Psycho wrote:

McKekS wrote:

man! you are psycho :D ;)

I was only 12 when that happened :(

Posted on Fri, 8 July 2005 at 23:21

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