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Getting back with exes.

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Started by Tubthumper (Scott) in Chit-Chat

Now. Here we have a situation. I’m bored, and you’ll probably have no advice, but here goes.

In September, I dumped my girlfriend after 7 months. 3 months on, I’m regretting it. So I’ve decided I’m gonna ask her out again, after I’ve apologised for being a dick in the first place…

Apparently, I was quite important to her, so do you think she’ll still feel the same, and say yes? Or tell me to fuck off?

Would you even be asking her out again?
——-Prepare for some emo——-

I miss being with her…:(

Posted on Thu, 15 December 2005 at 23:50

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Lenny wrote:

Before you ask her out again try to remember why you dumped her in the first place. Its never a good idea to get back with exes, in my humble opinion

Posted on Fri, 16 December 2005 at 00:03

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FNYANKEZ wrote:

I went down that road a few times. Always ended badly :(

Posted on Fri, 16 December 2005 at 01:07

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White Psycho wrote:

My ex broke up with me, she was really important to me and it knocked me for six. But I don’t think I could go back out with her. I think we’re just gonna be friends, seriously mate think about it really carefully.

Posted on Fri, 16 December 2005 at 02:03

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deadsetgav wrote:

Tubthumper wrote:

Here we have a situation. I’m bored,

Carefull mate - if that is your primary reason for getting back with her… Guilt and boredom dont sound like the foundations of a particularly good relationship. In saying that, I dont really know you - so do what you feel is right.

Posted on Fri, 16 December 2005 at 06:39

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buffalo-boy wrote:

I was gutted when me and my fiancee decided to split but I always think that we split up for a reason and those reasons would probably all re-surface if we went out again.

Then again, the purpose of this life according to me is make yourself happy - no-one else is going to do it for you, if you’ve had time to evaluate and you think she’s the one, go get her. If not you can have mine! (Sorry Bum, not really, i love you!)

Posted on Fri, 16 December 2005 at 08:23

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Poque Mahone wrote:

I would say don´t do it.

Posted on Fri, 16 December 2005 at 09:27

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Taunty Dan wrote:

Mate, don’t do it!! Its a case of grass being greener. Its difficult to look back and remember the bad times rather than the good, and if things fall apart theres a reason for it. Plus it is my personal belief that you should only look forward, never look back.

Posted on Fri, 16 December 2005 at 10:41

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up_in_flames (Tom) wrote:

Been there, done that.

My advice: Just don’t do it. It wouldn’t work out, even at the second try. When I got back together with my ex, I ignored all the advice my friends gave me. The ultimate end 6 months later was painful, but at least I learnt that it wasn’t meant to be with her.

I for one will never do that again, and remember: Every end is the beginning of something new.

Posted on Fri, 16 December 2005 at 10:46

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zipless wrote:

DON’T!!!!!!!!!!

Shagging exes can be good fun, but don’t get back with her for God’s sake.

Posted on Fri, 16 December 2005 at 11:28

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ctrlaltdelete (chris) wrote:

As king of crap relationships, I suggest not going there.You probably miss the regular sex.Just walk away man, and proove that you can be strong without other people.Like someone said before, the sex will be great but it doesnt half mess with your head!

Posted on Fri, 16 December 2005 at 14:16

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White Psycho wrote:

Splitting with my ex was horrible, I wanted her back for a while but now I don’t care. I just decided fuck it, I want my life back.

Posted on Fri, 16 December 2005 at 14:18

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Nitro wrote:

yuo can’t burn a fire from the ashes, buddy. sorry.

Posted on Fri, 16 December 2005 at 16:46

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3ddo-on-the-balcony (eddo) wrote:

I hate the respectless phrase ‘dumping someone’: you split or you leave someone. So, if you’re thinking of picking up someone you ‘dumped’ three months ago, you are lacking some respect imho. Like said before (Lenny): why did you ‘dump’ her? Do you still love her or are you just feeling lonely? Be honest to yourself and to your ex! He or she deserves respect and honesty.

Posted on Sat, 17 December 2005 at 01:14

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