#31
White Psycho wrote:
Posted on Mon, 8 November 2004 at 13:23
#32
tartanskirtgirl wrote:
thanks for the constructive advice…will prob stick to Cosmo next time!!
Posted on Mon, 8 November 2004 at 13:42
#33
choi wrote:
Well… My ex-boyfriend ditched his then-girlfriend for me, we stayed together for 6 months, but alas, it was not to be in the end. So, to answer your question: YES THEY DO.
But be prepared for some nasty situations, like the co-dependent ex-girl trying to get his man back.
Posted on Mon, 8 November 2004 at 14:34
#34
mr self destruct wrote:
tartanskirtgirl wrote:
thanks for the constructive advice…will prob stick to Cosmo next time!!
As you’ve seen, you really did come to the wrong place if it was constructive advice you were after!
Posted on Mon, 8 November 2004 at 14:39
#35
Auto_Surgery (Mad Axe Man) wrote:
choi wrote:
like the co-dependent ex-girl trying to get his man back.
Hmm, I’m confused.
Posted on Mon, 8 November 2004 at 14:48
#36
Misanthropologist (d) wrote:
Posted on Mon, 8 November 2004 at 15:17
#37
hoochalobster (Sarah) Super Moderator wrote:
@d - why depressed?
Seems clear to me that if the guy has his missus and a bit on the side he’s not gonna want to change that. In your position Tartan*, I’d explain to him that you’re staying well away from him until he’s single. If he really does want to be with you, then he’ll do the decent thing by his girlfriend/wife and end it with her.
Posted on Mon, 8 November 2004 at 21:58
#38
Misanthropologist (d) wrote:
hoochalobster wrote:
@d - why depressed?
Seems clear to me that if the guy has his missus and a bit on the side he’s not gonna want to change that.
I’m not sure, maybe because it’s a cynical (if potentially realistic) view that inherently thinks the worst of people. *shrugs* I can understand someone being interested in two people - that’s life - but it’s a big step up (in my opinion) from that to saying that he’d prefer to have both.
*shrugs again*
I’m just old fashioned, I guess.
Posted on Mon, 8 November 2004 at 23:35
#39
hoochalobster (Sarah) Super Moderator wrote:
Well, he currently gets to see both the women in his life and doesn’t have to deal with anything. In my experience, men will do anything to avoid a confrontation and he’s not going to have *that* conversation with his wife/girlfriend until he really, really has to. If, indeed, he really, really wants to.
Posted on Tue, 9 November 2004 at 19:11
#40
Misanthropologist (d) wrote:
As I say, cynical and depressing.
Posted on Tue, 9 November 2004 at 21:45
#41
tartanskirtgirl wrote:
It is now, as they say, now in the hands of the lawyers, he really is leaving…
Posted on Wed, 10 November 2004 at 08:27
#42
marja (sinner) wrote:
is he leaving you or his wife? I know a personal question, so feel free to answer or not.
Posted on Wed, 10 November 2004 at 08:48
#43
motherh666 wrote:
Uhh this is getting exciting. Better than Eastenders. :eek:
Posted on Wed, 10 November 2004 at 09:04
#44
tartanskirtgirl wrote:
leaving his wife, yeah my life the soap opera…
Posted on Wed, 10 November 2004 at 13:24
#45
joseph? wrote:
my dad left my mum for another woman
Posted on Mon, 15 November 2004 at 14:16
#46
infernalover wrote:
i won’t do with my actual girlfriend.
in fact, i didn’t even with other girls i had in the past, but sometimes i used to have “relaations” with other girls.. (again: i WON’T do it with my actual girlfriend: i LOVE her!) i did it a few times, and once i were with three girls on the same time (well, not in bed, that would have been a great experience!!!!!! :cool: :D): two of them knowing that, but the other (the “real” one) didn’t know.. that was unfortunately a very short period of time, but, hey, i enjoyed it a lot…
back to the original question: NO, i won’t leave my girl for another one
Posted on Mon, 15 November 2004 at 16:28
#47
Superstick Dude wrote:
I wouldn’t leave my girlfriend for another woman (if i had one). I’ve only had one girlfriend and the only reason i was with her was coz she threatened to kill herself. So i couldn’t leave her :p
Posted on Mon, 15 November 2004 at 22:15
#48
Viirkokka wrote:
How corageous of you superstick dude. cant help but feel that must be quite awfull for you..
Posted on Fri, 16 November 2007 at 11:11
#49
Dennis wrote:
So, seeing as Viiiirkokkkka has unearthed this thread, how did the story pan out in the end, Tartanwossname?
Posted on Fri, 16 November 2007 at 12:29
#50
Cuchulain wrote:
I’m pretty monogamous but it’s damn hard keeping all those supermodels from my doorstep.
Posted on Fri, 16 November 2007 at 14:56
#51
Misanthropologist (d) wrote:
Just because it’s where you sleep, doesn’t make it ‘your’ doorstep. Those girls have to leave the house some way.
Posted on Fri, 16 November 2007 at 15:06
#52
Taunty Dan wrote:
Posted on Fri, 16 November 2007 at 15:21
#53
Dennis wrote:
Bloody Jehovahs Witnesses get everywhere.*
(*except Heaven. Alledgedly)
Posted on Fri, 16 November 2007 at 15:23
#54
Cuchulain wrote:
Misanthropologist wrote:
Just because it’s where you sleep, doesn’t make it ‘your’ doorstep.
One thing mister , IT IS my doorstep.
And the cardboard box and shopping trolley are mine too !
Posted on Fri, 16 November 2007 at 16:08 in reply to an earlier post
#55
Dennis wrote:
I think it is very resourceful of you Cuch to keep your drinking water in an old meths bottle. What? Oh, it IS meths…?
Posted on Fri, 16 November 2007 at 16:11
#56
Viirkokka wrote:
Well he’s gotta detox somehow!
Posted on Fri, 16 November 2007 at 17:30
#57
tartanskirtgirl wrote:
so it’s been i while…but a quicky update…he left and we’ve been married almost a year… so sometimes good shit happens outta a bad situation… and now I’m a stepmum!!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted on Sat, 17 November 2007 at 23:50
