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Started by smfdbabycakes (Diana Sottile) in New Members (Introduce Yourself)

ok i just broke up with my boyfriend of yrs. and my father has altimerz and i dont speak with my mother how about you?

Posted on Tue, 22 July 2008 at 23:27

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CS (Colin S) wrote:

I’ve been single for (what feels like!) years, my father’s in Afghanistan and my mother’s out at work :/

Posted on Wed, 23 July 2008 at 00:01

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Kyle Bovine (K B) wrote:

Altimerz: a mixture of being an “old-timer” and having “Alzheimers”

:D sorry…

listen to some tunes to cheer yourself up in the short term, in the long term you should talk to somebody you trust. life slaps us in the face more often than we’d like, it’s good to confide in someone

Posted on Wed, 23 July 2008 at 19:00

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smfdbabycakes (Diana Sottile) wrote:

thanks

Posted on Fri, 25 July 2008 at 05:21

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smfdbabycakes (Diana Sottile) wrote:

you know i just dont get it. he breaks up with me but yet still wants to hang out and go on vacations. does this make sense to anyone?

Posted on Sat, 26 July 2008 at 01:55

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Kill_Hill (Brendan) wrote:

That probably because he is feeling bad and probably doesn’t wanna be seen as being a bastard. Tell him to feck off if you feel thats the thing to do, don’t let it drag, shortsharpshock, send him packin.

Posted on Sat, 26 July 2008 at 09:22

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Alan wrote:

smfdbabycakes wrote:

you know i just dont get it. he breaks up with me but yet still wants to hang out and go on vacations. does this make sense to anyone?

Ha, sounds like he wants the benefits of a relationship (sex, or the possiblity of) without the commitment.
Yeah, tell him to take a hike, especially if he tries it on… which he probably will… he is a bloke afterall.

Posted on Sat, 26 July 2008 at 12:20 in reply to an earlier post

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trigger wrote:

^
exactly

Posted on Sat, 26 July 2008 at 12:30

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Benjamin Pinto (don) wrote:

CS why are you single such a long time is something wrong? :D

Posted on Sat, 26 July 2008 at 13:59

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smfdbabycakes (Diana Sottile) wrote:

thank you thats what i said to him. you made your bed NOW you lay in it!!! lol you guys just make no sense to me

Posted on Sun, 27 July 2008 at 21:47

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oxygala (Daghan) wrote:

a couple of hours ago, i kind’a broke up with someone, we weren’t together anyway but we were about to, there was this other guy, things got too complicated, she didn’t want include me in her regular life too much, she didn’t tell me if she was serious with this guy either, so i broke down today and that’s it. i’m seriously in need of Opal Mantra, Straight Life, Turn, A Moment of Clarity and some other killer T? tracks.

I usually find myself in such stupid relationships, do i ever learn? No!

Posted on Sun, 27 July 2008 at 22:06

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smfdbabycakes (Diana Sottile) wrote:

i see that. i felt that way with my now ex-bf. i always felt that he kept me at an arms lenght.

Posted on Mon, 28 July 2008 at 00:47

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oxygala (Daghan) wrote:

I think what she was really into was me trying to seduce her. If we had a real relationship, she wouldn’t have that. Instead, I was always nervous, jealous but always thinking of her. I don’t think she did it on purpose but maybe she got carried away. In any case I’m glad I could check out before I get serious damage. But I have to admit I feel like I just got a punch in the stomach. I’m gonna need some days to recover.

These are the days I feel very lucky to know T? exists. This band has always been the soundtrack of my hard times. Tomorrow, I probably start the day with “Lonely Cryin’ Only” and finish by saying “Happy People Don’t Have Stories”. That’s always the way it is.

Posted on Mon, 28 July 2008 at 01:07

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Cuchulain wrote:

Hardly see my family and close friends at all coz I’m living abroad for almost 7 years now and broken up with plenty of gf’s in the past , some in a good way some in a bad way , some after 3 days and some after 3+ years.
Not bothered by it at all though , it’s what happens in life so enjoy it while it lasts.

Relations are like airports , people come and go on flights, some with a serious delay or very turbulent.
It helps though if you board with the one with the first class ticket and the least baggage.

Dr.Cuch has spoketh.

Posted on Mon, 28 July 2008 at 11:04

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CS (Colin S) wrote:

And I’m going to remember that piece of advice!
Cheers :)

Posted on Mon, 28 July 2008 at 17:54

#15

mr self destruct wrote:

If you’re meant to be together then you’ll make up, if you’re not then you won’t - simple

Posted on Mon, 28 July 2008 at 19:26

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smfdbabycakes (Diana Sottile) wrote:

thanks thats makes alot of sense and no one in my life has said that to me or maybe not in so many words. very helpful and different look on things

Posted on Tue, 29 July 2008 at 05:25

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mrs h wrote:

Aww Sammy - I didn’t know you believed in fate! ;)

Posted on Tue, 29 July 2008 at 07:03

#18

mr self destruct wrote:

I guess what I said did sound like that, but what I actually meant was “if something needs to change then it will”

Posted on Tue, 29 July 2008 at 09:12

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Cuchulain wrote:

There’s always alcohol !

Posted on Tue, 29 July 2008 at 09:28

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smfdbabycakes (Diana Sottile) wrote:

hahaha i love that theres always alchol

Posted on Thu, 31 July 2008 at 02:58

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Punkwak (Tijn) wrote:

What where, i’ll be there :)) cheers

Posted on Thu, 31 July 2008 at 14:25

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RoyBatty (Steve) wrote:

Cuchulain wrote:

There’s always alcohol !

Agreed. The only thing vodka ever broke of mine was my liver! ;-)

Posted on Thu, 31 July 2008 at 14:30 in reply to an earlier post

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Punkwak (Tijn) wrote:

did you had a good Nurse.. ? :)) i haven’t..! cheers

Posted on Thu, 31 July 2008 at 20:16

#24

Benjamin Pinto (don) wrote:

What a nice puppie do you have Mate!!!!

Posted on Fri, 1 August 2008 at 14:15

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smfdbabycakes (Diana Sottile) wrote:

i have been doing lots ooooooo drinking and loving every minute of it…

Posted on Sat, 2 August 2008 at 03:50

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