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i get mad everytime i think of my g/f

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Started by scott stevens in Chit-Chat

she lives in ny state i live in nj

i always think she’s gonna cheat on me, good reasons to

she’s going to buffalo to see clutch this weekend and she talks to a bunch of guys who are going on a different message board

i cant go for financial reasons

ive been up too long

Posted on Thu, 26 June 2003 at 09:28

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#1

rocking roxy wrote:

well, don’t you think there’s s.th wrong in your realionship, when you can’t trust each other?

Posted on Thu, 26 June 2003 at 09:39

#2

mr self destruct wrote:

If she has the intention or capacity to cheat on you, there ain’t a damn thing you can do about it. Sad but true.

You can either trust her, or accompany her everywhere, or sit at home worrying about what she’s up to all the time :(

Posted on Thu, 26 June 2003 at 20:20

#3

Citizen Erased wrote:

Has she asked you to move to where she is? You could uproot your life just to make her happy, but then, you might end up regretting doing that… who knows?

Posted on Thu, 26 June 2003 at 21:03

#4

Alex wrote:

Maybe this is a dumb thing to say, and I hold no responsibility for your actions… but..

are you…

gonna get drunk?
go round and fuck her up?

Posted on Thu, 26 June 2003 at 21:16

#5

Citizen Erased wrote:

or just hang around and get screwed up on her?

Posted on Thu, 26 June 2003 at 21:25

#6

Alex wrote:

Fuck it, hang around and screw two of her mates. Might make you feel better.

Posted on Thu, 26 June 2003 at 21:33

#7

mr self destruct wrote:

Get drunk, hang around, then shag three of her mates.

Posted on Thu, 26 June 2003 at 21:35

#8

Citizen Erased wrote:

Or both her parents - that sort of behaviour tendsd to let people know that things aren’t quite salutory.

Posted on Thu, 26 June 2003 at 21:56

#9

scott stevens wrote:

well she seems to be very honest about her past and now she wants me to call her tommorow night

i cant stay with her all the time it would bother me

i like having freedom in a relationship, but im not too sure about her, i think i might be my own problem

maybee i should just jump off a bridge

wait

i wont but i typed it so i wont erase it

i just know im gonna end up hurt

maybee i should bang her friend, she liked me, i think

Posted on Fri, 27 June 2003 at 08:59

#10

scott stevens wrote:

im not gonna fuck her up anytime soon

Posted on Fri, 27 June 2003 at 08:59

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Citizen Erased wrote:

scott stevens wrote:

well she seems to be very honest about her past and now she wants me to call her tommorow night

So that she can check up on where you are?

scott stevens wrote:

maybee i should just jump off a bridge

wait

i wont but i typed it so i wont erase it

I know the feeling but am going to try jumping out of a plane instead…

scott stevens wrote:

maybee i should bang her friend, she liked me, i think

THere’s bound to be someone here that would oblige if she’s fit.

Posted on Fri, 27 June 2003 at 09:31

#12

scott stevens wrote:

the friend is very petite

you could break her in half

Posted on Fri, 27 June 2003 at 09:37

#13

allroy wrote:

As you seem to use this as a therapy:
masturbation might save your life :)

Posted on Fri, 27 June 2003 at 09:41

#14

zm wrote:

Uhh…GF are my initials…help…

Posted on Fri, 27 June 2003 at 12:51

#15

smurftastic wrote:

Scuse the intrusion into this little discussion. My own (female) perspective is:

If you are worrying about what she might get up to, I’d say you don’t trust her and there’s something wrong with the relationship. Trust has to be earnt. Has she done anything that has led you to believe you can’t trust her? If not, you may be worrying over nothing. Do you trust her? If the answer to that is no, then there is no future in this relationship. Cut your losses and move on, or accept that you’re relationship is not the wonderful “love” thing you may think it is but make do with the wonderful sex you must be having (coz you wouldn’t stick with someone you don’t trust unless there was something else to be had).

The only way you’ll get through this is to talk to her about it. If you feel you can’t do that then I would say the relationship is going nowhere. If you voice your concerns to her, watch her reaction. Does it seem like she’s hiding stuff? You know her best. Listen to your instincts. It takes a lot of courage to admit that a relationship isn’t working, but if you’re worrying about this, then you can be pretty certain that something is up (although it might not necessarily be what you think it is) and it needs investigating so you can get some peace of mind.

OK, I’ll shut up now (sorry, lunchtime drinking with my workmates tends to make me waffle on a bit).

Posted on Fri, 27 June 2003 at 13:46

#16

Citizen Erased wrote:

If her father is rich, go to his house and drink all his wine.

Posted on Fri, 27 June 2003 at 13:48

#17

scott stevens wrote:

thank you smurftastic for taking your time to write that, it is very helpful and useful

and im sorry zm

Posted on Sat, 28 June 2003 at 08:50

#18

Psychotherapy? wrote:

Cheer up Scotty, at least the Devils won the Stanley Cup! :)

Posted on Sun, 29 June 2003 at 21:04

#19

scott stevens wrote:

ive been drink out of the cup all night

Posted on Mon, 30 June 2003 at 08:20

#20

MarkoJii (Ukko Perkele) wrote:

http://www.cheaters.com :D

Posted on Mon, 30 June 2003 at 09:51

#21

scott stevens wrote:

that show is still on?

Posted on Mon, 30 June 2003 at 10:04

#22

tatty seaside town wrote:

MarkoJii wrote:

http://www.cheaters.com :D

*g*

Posted on Mon, 30 June 2003 at 10:04

#23

Hecubus wrote:

It’s a small, small world…

I’m an ex-pat from the Clutch message board.

Posted on Tue, 1 July 2003 at 15:01

#24

happy? wrote:

happy? from Buffalo and Pro-Rock here…

ummm… If this chick is babyl, rest assured nobody did anything with her at the Clutch show… The only person that slept in her room was antoher guy in antoher bed (and that guy is happily married and stuff)…

I know nothing about her in real life so maybe you have a legit concern… But nothing happened…

If this isn’t her (it has to be though)… Then don’t mind me…

Posted on Tue, 1 July 2003 at 16:29

#25

scott stevens wrote:

id like to post my thanks to whoever told her it helped a lot

Posted on Wed, 2 July 2003 at 11:25

#26

Hecubus wrote:

hoping it really did help and that wasn’t just sarcasm. i suspect i probably got the ball rolling, though i didn’t tell her directly.

Posted on Wed, 2 July 2003 at 19:05

#27

baybeelemonade wrote:

damn…this is the worst thread eva!!

i’m goin back to PR…

Posted on Thu, 3 July 2003 at 04:03

#28

scott stevens wrote:

i hate you all

except the smurf girl

Posted on Thu, 3 July 2003 at 07:43

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