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Started by Michael in Other Bands & Artists on Wed, 9 January 2002 at 13:33

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nice guys wrote:

Die Frau des Feeder-Schlagzeugers Jon Lee hat einen offenen Brief an ihren verstorbenen Mann geschrieben.

Im Forum von ‘nme.com’ meldete sich Tatiana, die Frau der verstorbenen Feeder-Drummers, mit einem Statement zu Wort:

‘Keine Worte können beschreiben, wie viel Schmerz meine Kinder, ich und Jons Eltern in dieser schweren, tragischen Zeit zu erleiden haben. Es gibt auch keine Worte, die beschreiben könnten, was für ein außergewöhnlicher Mensch er war und in unseren Herzen immer bleiben wird. Jon war der liebenswürdigste, großzügigste, netteste und schönste Mann, der je gelebt hat. Er war mein bester Freund, mein Mann, meine Liebe, mein Atem, mein gesamtes Leben. Er war der wunderbarste Vater und unsere Kinder haben ihm alles bedeutet. Die Welt hat Jon Lee, den Schlagzeuger von Feeder, verloren. Ich aber habe meinen Jon verloren - genau so wie meine Kinder ihren Vater, seine Eltern ihren Sohn, Andrew seinen Bruder und viele von uns einen wundervollen Freund. Niemand wird je erfahren, warum Jon gehen musste. Es war seine Entscheidung. Egal, wie sehr es mich schmerzt, ich werde seinen Wunsch respektieren, so dass er den Frieden finden kann, nach dem er sich so sehr gesehnt hat. Ich möchte ihm folgen, aber ich kann es nicht. Er hat mich mit zwei wunderbaren Kindern zurückgelassen, um die ich mich kümmern muss. Und das werde ich tun – für Jon, für Nick und für Cameron. Ich bin angewidert von den falschen, unwahren und entsetzlichen Veröffentlichungen, die ich in den letzten Tagen über Jon lesen musste. Er war ein wundervoller Mensch, Ehemann und Vater. Jon war alles für mich. Wir hatten Probleme, die jeder andere auf dieser Welt kennt, aber am Ende des Tages hielt uns unsere Liebe zusammen. Ich glaube daran, dass es für jeden auf der Welt einen Menschen gibt, der für ihn bestimmt ist. Jon und ich sind seelenverwandt. Wir haben immer gesagt, wir seien unbesiegbar und würden immer zusammen bleiben. Und wir werden für immer zusammen bleiben. Wir sind die einzigen, die unsere Liebe füreinander kennen und dieses Wissen gehört uns allein. Ich werde den Rest meines Lebens damit verbringen, mich um unsere Kinder zu kümmern und sie zu lieben. Denn das hätte er so von mir erwartet. Jeder Atemzug wird mich schmerzen, aber jeder Atemzug wird mir auch Frieden bringen, denn ich weiß, dass ich mit jeder Sekunde ein Stück näher bei Jon sein werde. Ich danke den Fans für all ihre Liebe und Unterstützung. Ich bitte darum, dass mein Mann als die wunderbare Person respektiert wird und in Erinnerung bleibt, die er war, damit er endlich Frieden finden kann. Bitte tut das für Jon. Vergießt keine Tränen mehr, denn er liebte das Lachen. Meine Kinder und ich haben uns in Miami von Jon verabschiedet und werden deshalb nicht bei der Beerdingung in Wales anwesend sein. Wir leiden alle sehr und können es kaum mehr ertragen. Unsere Herzen werden bei ihm, seiner Familie und seinen Freunden sein. Ich bitte darum, dass ihr uns nach Freitag ein wenig Ruhe, Respekt und Zeit gönnt. Bitte lasst meine Liebe in Frieden ruhen.’

Außerdem schrieb Tatiana einen offenen Brief an Jon, den wir hier im Original abdrucken:

‘To Jon,
Thank you for the most beautiful memories of my life, for our children’s life, for true love, partnership, friendship, for the laughter and for the things only the two of us know. I will love you with every beat of my broken heart, as I always have and always will. We are invincible. Nothing will part us. I will see you soon, my love, my life and my world. My heart is with you forever. There is only you for me and me for you. Forever.
Rest in peace my angel; I am with you all the way.
Unforgettable…that’s what you are.
I love you. Forever. Love waits and I wait for the day to see you again. And it is then that I will have peace.
Your wife for eternity,
Tatiana Lee’

Taken from http://www.visions.de

Stefan

Posted on Tue, 22 January 2002 at 12:41

#32

Body Bag Girl Iris wrote:

Well I do underdstand what Roxy is trying to say. I also lost a friend who commited suicide some years ago. You feel left alone with a very empthy feeling, you sometimes even hate that person because he/she did it, but your love is always stronger and you never want to loose somebody you love. What if you own father did it… and you grew up without his love and support?
I also think suicide depends on the situation, sometimes people struggle through live since they are kids and only want one thing and that is to die, every day is a pain to get out of bed again.
But there are also people that commit suicide because there friend broke up their relationship or something like that, temporary things that he/she can survive.
In the upper case I can imagin you want to leave this earth and go somewhere else and I hope you don’t have to do it alone, I hope you can be surrounded by your friends that hold your hand and support you when you go to the other world.
In the other case it’s a temporary problem. And I also would be angry if a friend of mine did something like that. It’s so unreal and you stay behind with so many questions. I hope non of you will never come in a situation like this!!!
Iris

Posted on Tue, 22 January 2002 at 13:38

#33

say10 wrote:

I’ve read Tatianas message and I had to cry while reading it. There is just so much love and sadness in it. I hope I’ll never have to cope with a situation like this, and I wish her and her family all the best! But as I’ve said before: please don’t judge about Jon, because really none of us knows what was on his mind when he did it. It is sad, but it has happnened and nobody can change it.

Posted on Tue, 22 January 2002 at 18:32

#34

Michael wrote:

Fact is that Feeder was (hopefully still is, since they might continue) a really cool band, I just love Yesterday Went Too Soon, especially the faster songs. I haven’t listened to Polythene very closely yet, but Echo Park rules as well. Even for these reasons it’s a tragic loss.

Posted on Tue, 22 January 2002 at 21:27

#35

romy wrote:

i had watery eyes too when i read tatiana’s message.

Posted on Tue, 22 January 2002 at 23:14

#36

innocentx wrote:

i’ve had a good friend die a while back. get used to being an insomniac for a while

Posted on Sun, 27 January 2002 at 22:11

#37

innocentx wrote:

one more thing..for people who think committing suicide is ‘the easy way out’. that’s farther from the truth. it’s the hardest thing to do. your life has to really be bad for you not to want to live it any longer. some people handle things better then others. for those who can’t handle it, you have to be there for them,..plain and simple. a lot of people don’t have that.

Posted on Sun, 27 January 2002 at 22:15

#38

Grant Nicholas wrote:

Title: Feeder… (merged)

Who likes them???
And wich song do you like the most?
cheers

Posted on Sun, 30 November 2003 at 20:43

#39

mr self destruct wrote:

You can’t like them that much, you’ve spelt his name wrong!

Posted on Sun, 30 November 2003 at 20:52

#40

Grant Nicholas wrote:

you’re right ö) sorry

Posted on Sun, 30 November 2003 at 21:01

#41

Michael wrote:

I don’t LIKE them, I LOVE them! Went to the Amsterdam gig last week, which was a blast! My fav songs are My Perfect Day, Turn, Insomnia, Forget About Tomorrow, among others.

Posted on Sun, 30 November 2003 at 21:11

#42

Grant Nicholas wrote:

i was there tooooo… It was amazing..
special was the buck rogers for us on the balcony :o)
i’ve taped it.. cheers

Posted on Sun, 30 November 2003 at 21:39

#43

Krisken wrote:

I havn’t heard them since I picked up Polythene back in ‘97. Is their other stuff any good? I like Polythene if that’s any indication.

Posted on Sun, 30 November 2003 at 22:54

#44

Grant Nicholas wrote:

you can try feederunderground.co.uk for a bootlegdream :o) so many gigs… cheers

Posted on Mon, 1 December 2003 at 09:15

#45

Auto_Surgery (Mad Axe Man) wrote:

I like their music but have seen them live twice, don’t think Grant has much of a stage presence though. Fav song has to be Insomnia

Posted on Mon, 1 December 2003 at 09:28

#46

Bad Karma wrote:

I’m not a fan of Feeder i find them a bit dull.

@Grant you get get you’re username changed to the correct spelling if you ask Teethgrinder.

Posted on Mon, 1 December 2003 at 16:01

#47

shitkicker wrote:

insomnia

Posted on Mon, 1 December 2003 at 16:25

#48

Citizen Erased wrote:

The only time NME got anything right in recent years was when it descrobed Yesterday Went Too Soon as ‘effortlessly lovely’. Comfort in Sound’s not bad, but I prefer the 2 previous albums. There’s quite a lot of filler there but their better tracks are very good.

Posted on Mon, 1 December 2003 at 17:19

#49

Kids Stuff wrote:

Feeder have always struck me as the type of band you can’t really hate, but on the other hand, they’re just never going to be your favourite band. They’re just sort of…not bad.

I do like Just The Way I’m Feeling a helluva lot though.

Posted on Mon, 1 December 2003 at 20:21

#50

Citizen Erased wrote:

That’s a good way of describing them - you’d go and see them if you got the chance, but you’d not be too gutted if you couldn’t go.

Posted on Mon, 1 December 2003 at 20:23

#51

not_that_kind_of_guy (a story on the radio) wrote:

as a lot of people seem to have said, feeder are one of those bands who exist but that’s about it. i liked “yesterday went too soon” but i don’t get too excited about them. i’ve seen them a couple of times but only at festivals and stuff. they’re not bad though. i was a bit surprised at what happened with jon though. bless.

xxx

Posted on Mon, 1 December 2003 at 22:41

#52

White Psycho wrote:

seen them twice, both really good gigs! Favourite song is probably High or Just A Day, but I don’t know much of their stuff to be honest

Posted on Tue, 2 December 2003 at 00:00

#53

Don't Call Me Honey wrote:

I think Comfort In Sound is an amazing album, as was Echo Park. haven’t quite managed to get into their earlier stuff though.

I recently saw them live (for the first time), and tbh I wasn’t that blown away. not sure why - maybe they were just having a bad day…?

Posted on Tue, 2 December 2003 at 00:54

#54

Tango Romeo wrote:

Title: Amazing

Really rockin’ hard…
Specially buck rogers and Just a fuckin’ day :o

Posted on Sun, 18 January 2004 at 19:24

#55

JSar666 wrote:

Love ‘em.. they’ve released some shite songs in their time though. Their cover of “Can’t Stand Losing You” is fantastic.

Posted on Sun, 18 January 2004 at 19:38

#56

Andy D (Andy) wrote:

Speaking of their covers, I would say FGTH’s Power Of Love is their best and what their original tracks are concerned I would have to go for Just A Day, Piece By Piece, Turn, Just The Way I’m Feeling and 7 Days In The Sun.

Posted on Tue, 20 January 2004 at 22:25

#57

Tango Romeo wrote:

Title: Rock your ass of Grant hihihi

:p

Posted on Sun, 22 February 2004 at 16:39

#58

romy wrote:

well, they are my fave band, but i can understand that lots of you are quite indifferent.i found comfort in sound quite bland too, it is a grower, though. nevertheless,i will never listen to it as much as i have listened (and still am) to yesterday went too soon over the years.
and just for the record, they are absolutely sweet to their fans.unlike some other people in other welsh bands.

Posted on Thu, 4 March 2004 at 17:48

#59

JSar666 wrote:

I like Feeder. I even have the Comfort In Sound guitar book. I prefer the earlier stuff though.

Posted on Fri, 5 March 2004 at 09:23

#60

Michael wrote:

Comfort in Sound is a very special album for the band, it’s by far their most personal. Although I prefer the ‘rocky’ Feeder, I still think CiS is one of their best. It helped me through a difficult period too. Some of the lyrics are very recognizable, I think it will remain an alltime favourite of mine, Forget About Tomorrow being the standout track for me. That song really does something to me anyway.

Posted on Fri, 5 March 2004 at 10:04

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